Which Breed Would Be Better?

Either the Coton de Tulear or Havanese. They are pretty similair and are in the same “family”. My family wants a dog that
Doesn’t shed a lot.
Can be playful but still likes to lay in your lap or be petted
Is small
Easy to train
Good with children
and isn’t aggressive.
The fur is soft to touch
Both breeds hit all of standards and I also know that you can keep the Havanese in a puppy cut which is what I would like to do and I read that you can’t do that with a Coton. So which one?